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Stories from the edge of possibility. Whether navigating Arctic extremes or guiding transformative change, these reflections explore what happens when we push beyond perceived limits. Expect honest insights, practical wisdom, and real experiences from both frozen frontiers and human potential.

The Success Trap

Date: April 9, 2025

The moment you taste victory is when you’re most likely to fuck it all up.

I’ve seen it hundreds of times with clients. The scale finally moves. The mirror shows something different. Someone notices.

And then you break.

One missed workout becomes two. The meal prep containers sit empty. Your water bottle collects dust.

“I deserve this,” you whisper, reaching for comfort, for the easy way out.

The success paradox cuts deep: the instant your efforts start paying off is exactly when you’re most vulnerable to throwing everything away.

Your brain, tasting victory, decides the war is over. But your body knows better. What built your progress is what maintains it.

This isn’t about motivation or discipline. It’s about recognizing the trap waiting at the exact moment you think you’ve escaped the trap.

So if you’re seeing progress right now – do not ease up. Don’t reward yourself with inconsistency.

Your future self isn’t hoping you’ll take a break.

Your future self is begging you to keep going.

Stay safe.
And don’t forget to be awesome.

Gerry van der Walt - Arctic Expedition - Mindset & Performance Coach

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